It is only 45 days to 'the' day... can you imagine? I can't!
A LOT has happened since 55 days ago when I posted some quick pictures on the 100 day count down.
4th October 2010 was a tragic day for us, whilst we were in Singapore to sort out wedding stuff, without warning, Fozz's father left us to join the Almighty. It came so suddenly and we were definitely unprepared emotionally, but we were thankful to the Almighty for allowing us to spend the last few days of his life together with him. Fozz and the family are still recovering from the loss and saddened by the fact that he will not be around for the wedding but God works in mysterious ways. His last advice given to us over breakfast on Saturday will not be forgotten.
Now that you're getting married, whatever social commitments you have on the outside, like your band and friends, will now have to be given up by about 50% because that 50% now belongs to Tasha and vice versa, because marriage is something you need to work on continuously.
I know this sounds pretty basic to most people, so I think only for people who have been around to witness the dynamics of our relationship will understand the impact of this. We will persevere to remember and work on.
We had considered cancelling or postphoning the reception, but after much consultation and thought, we realised, that Fozz's father, had been one of the ones who was most excited about the wedding, and we are sure he would be disappointed had we not continued with our plans.
There's still quite a bit more to do for the wedding for SURE... but things are falling into place slowly..... slowllllyyyyy... hahahaha..
45 days........
Picture taken by Shutterspeak on the bench he proposed on :)
